Ten Things I Look for in my future Manfriend
(because I'm through with boys lol)
Number One : The looks category
Okay I'm going to be honest cause if you know me well enough, none of my past relationships guys are lookers (no offense exes!). Not that I don't dig cute boys, I do! :) But I value personality over looks. So as long as they don't eat their boogers (eww), no freaky fetish and has a normal sense of fashion, I'm fine with that. Just to make things clear, I definitely would not date a guy who wears neon skinny jeans and wears a fedora to watch a movie.
Number Two : Character aka Personality
Who doesn't like charming men? But too charming, guys may come across as flirtatious. There must be a right balance at character. I personally adore men who can speak up for themselves. Men who have their own thoughts and opinions. Future world leader. Personality that shines out, distinguishing them from other mortal huahahaha. But seriously, I dig guys with their own personality. :)
Number Three : Language-compatible
I have violated this rule before and dated a none-English speaking man and look where the relationship led to? Well after a month or two of using Google Translator, the relationship went right to heaven.
I'm fine if you do not share my mother tongue. Well, as long as you can order Char Kuey Teow, extra si ham from the hawker stall uncle, I'm a happy girl already :) Funny thing, this reminded me that I had a friend Sam who dated a Thai girl who barely speaks any English and all I see is her posting cryptic messages on his wall saying "I miss you kateruk joob joob". (All to hoping Sam doesn't read my blog but kudos Sam for landing a hot chick. Well you don't need much English on bed so that'll do lol.)
Number Four : Musically inclined
Not a compulsory point but this is about what I look in my future manfriend so I can put in whatever plus points that I like ;) I can't play any instrument for shit, though I remember playing the recorder was fun, I had the whole music note figured out for 'My Heart Will Go On'. Men who can play instruments are very impressive! :) Not asking much but should be able to play like him :
Number Five : Men that value own space
Because I value mine. I got a comment last time, saying I'm very clingy but it's strange cos I am not those clingy girlfriends at all. Maybe in the beginning of the relationship I would seems clingy but any given relationships start off like that, isn't it? The constant 'I'm thinking of yous' and the flirty texting? No?
Okay I've reached number five and I couldn't think of another five right now but I've given myself a year off (or more lol) from relationships so I have plenty of time to figure out the other five points. It's going to storm in a bit so I have to log off now.
Adios!
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